Today is my 10th wedding anniversary which was held in Greece.
Someone from my work at the time was staying in the same resort as us with his family and I invited them to the wedding.
In fact, I was very keen for him to come and to have a great time.
You see at the time I was desperate for his approval.
It was some messed up psychological baggage that somehow I took on.
And so I was emotionally invested for him to attend and to be impressed.
And so I sat him with a close family member hoping they would hit it off.
They didn’t…(in all fairness to him, the family member was a bit rude that evening).
We said the speeches, had the first dance and when I looked over at his table after the dance it was empty.
He left early
And he didn’t even give us a card.
And I learned a lesson…
Don’t be desperate for approval unless you want to be disrespected.
As there is something inherently distasteful about being too eager or clingy.
And once you set yourself lower than a customer or key supplier .. you are no more than a service animal or commodity to that person.
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