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He could sell ice to Eskimos.Charm, wit, energy — the full package.Every deal closed felt like a solo act. And when his company needed a
October 14, 2025
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He could sell ice to Eskimos.Charm, wit, energy — the full package.Every deal closed felt like a solo act. And when his company needed a
We got married in 2014 at a place called Stadion, a private home perched above the sea near Finikounda in Messinia. The owner, Kosta, was
Let’s play a little game. Walk into your office Monday morning. Now ask yourself one question: “Who am I in my business?” There are 3
Here’s a Harsh truth no one tells you: If your business needs you — it’s not worth s*** You might be pulling in high revenue.
It was one email. Just one I didn’t send. That was the moment everything started to change. I had a client who needed a report.
Meet Mark. Mid-40s. Successful. Owns a Seven-figure business. Well Respected in his industry. But he’s completely exhausted with a maxed out calendar. A phone that
I was having drinks with my “Koumbaro” (close friend) this Friday. I’ve spoken about him before He owns an 8 figure business that has tripled
Recap of this week’s stories and what they reveal about building a business that gives you your life back. This week, we didn’t talk about
Too many founders surround themselves with people just like them — and stall their growth. Here’s why having humility leads to smart business growth
I ran into someone last week I hadn’t seen in a long time. We used to be part of the same business networking group —
There’s a moment every business owner hits… That foggy middle ground where you’re busy — but stuck. Meetings, calls, pitching… yet no traction. So what
I was at a low point. Cash was tight. Confidence was thinner. Still, I forced myself out to meet an old colleague for a drink.
If You’ve Been Reading me over the last few days…. Then you’ve seen it. The thread running through every story we’ve shared lately: The business
Last week, I sat across from a business owner over lunch. He leaned in, lowered his voice and said: “I thought I was the only
Well, I’m here to tell you now, each and every mother’s son You’d better learn it fast, you’d better learn it young ‘Cause someday never
“Forgive them Father, for they know not what they do.” Those were Jesus’ words on the cross — and last weekend, they were echoed by
Bad service and hidden pricing turned 9 loyal customers into ex-customers. Here’s the true cost of playing games with trust — and what every founder must learn.
Martyrdom has no place in business. If you’re sacrificing yourself daily and calling it noble, you’re building a prison — not a legacy. Learn how to shift from burnout to real ownership
Are you burning out in your business by acting like an employee — grinding instead of growing? Learn how one simple mindset shift can move you from burnout to business freedom.
My daughters had a complete meltdown during their swim lesson.
A year ago, I would’ve snapped.
Today? I sat on the pool bench… calm.
No yelling. No panic. No pressure to fix everything.
Not because I’ve become some Zen master.
But because my business isn’t bleeding me dry anymore.
If your business still explodes through you like a landmine during life’s chaos…
You already know something needs to change.
“I didn’t like who I’d become. I wasn’t a good father, a good husband… hell, I wasn’t even good company.”
Scott wasn’t talking about addiction.
He was talking about his business.
It was profitable — but it was slowly killing him.
His wife was afraid to go to bed beside him because of his rage-fueled business nightmares.
And the worst part?
He kept telling himself it would all be worth it “someday.”
Until the day he stopped lying to himself — and changed everything.
Is your Business blind…. Or is it you?
We all love pointing out the “specks” in other people’s operations.
Pricing’s too low. Team’s a mess. Offer’s unclear.
But you know what’s harder?
Spotting the plank in your own business.
The one costing you time, freedom, and money every single day.
Here’s how to finally see it — and fix it — before your business becomes a job no one wants to own or a legacy none of your children want to inherit.
30 Days in 2001.
In August, I stood on top of the World Trade Center, unwinding with teammates after a long day.
In September, I stood at Ground Zero — alone, just hours before it was roped off for visitors and tourists to come and pay respects.
That month left a mark.
Not just because of what I saw… and smelled…but because of what it taught me about value, purpose, and what we choose to build — or protect.
And it all came rushing back when I watched a documentary about a little church that stood its ground next to giants.
Too many business owners bleed cash by attracting the wrong clients. Here’s how one owner fired the dead weight, rebuilt his business, and got his life back — starting with better margins.
In part 2 we meet more with Earl, who nearly killed his business… by chasing the wrong customers.
More sales ≠ more money — especially when your prices are bleeding out to match bottom-feeders.
Today we look at how Earl realised more volume wasn’t the answer — and tomorrow….what he did instead to stop the bleeding and rebuild real profit.
“People just want it cheap…”
That’s what he told me after blowing 5-figures on marketing to get more customers — while his margins dropped 25%.
But more customers wasn’t the problem.
The real issue?
He was discounting to chase the wrong people — the ones who’d always leave, complain, or demand more for less.
So we sat down and started fixing the real problem.
The first question I asked him made him stop cold.
Full story here
Your business was supposed to fulfil your dreams in why you started it in the first place.
So why does it feel like a job with more stress and fewer control?
If you’re ready to stop feeling trapped inside what you built — this is for you.
One fall. Three seconds. Eight years lost.
That’s how my father’s final chapter began.
Here’s why I’m sharing it — and what every founder needs to hear if they’re stuck waiting for “someday” to enjoy their business.
Ever feel like Mike Corleone is talking about you in your business?
When Clients reappear with new fires.
Teams drop the ball when you’re gone for a day.
To-do lists multiply like souped up cats.
You’re not broken.
But the business is on its way to breaking you… unless….
In Q4, we’re helping founders escape that trap and finally build the company they thought they were creating in the first place.
She built a profitable business. And then she said she hated it.
17 years without ever being able to relax.
One holiday destroyed in 3 weeks.
15 months to recover.
Mary’s business made money —
but cost her her time, energy, peace of mind… and almost her family.
And she’s not alone.
If your business drains you more than it fuels you, it’s time to fix that.
We’re doing just that in Q4. Stay tuned.
He spent three decades building it.
When it was finally time to walk away… no one wanted it.
He made one fatal mistake—one that 7-figure founders make every day without realizing it.
The worst part?
He didn’t even see it coming.
This isn’t a story about business.
It’s about the blind spot that kills exits before they even start.
He built the company.
Closed the biggest deal of his life.
Finally made it.
But instead of celebration, he got silence.
Cold dinners. Missed memories.
And one question from his daughter that nearly broke him.
This isn’t about revenue.
It’s about what success costs when you build it wrong.
I wrote this for the founder who thought the grind would end—but it didn’t.
It just got worse.
Most business owners don’t realize it…
But there’s a silent shift that happens somewhere between year 3 and year 10.
It doesn’t show up on the P&L.
It doesn’t get mentioned in strategy sessions.
But it kills freedom, ruins families, and traps even the most successful founders.
I wrote this for the ones who feel it—but can’t name it yet.
Read it. Then ask yourself:
Is this already happening to me?
Sometimes the truism is in front of you face to face.. last night it was the idea that who you spend your time with can play a big part of how successful you become. I saw the power of that in Sophia Moulin’s Epicon Iftar where I spent 5 hours speaking with successful family offices and investors and enjoyed the amazing conversations… I
Three years ago, a business owner had millions on the table. He wasn’t quite investor-ready, but with a few smart moves, he could have been.
We mapped out a plan. He didn’t say yes. He didn’t say no. He just disappeared.
Now? His numbers have dropped, and the best offer he can get is pennies on the dollar.
Opportunity doesn’t wait. It knocks—once.
Are you ready when it does?
At the gym, I used to see a guy who was obsessed with one thing—getting bigger arms.
Every day, he went straight to the curl station, lifting faster and harder, convinced this was the secret.
But no matter how much effort he put in, nothing changed.
Then one day, he disappeared.
I see business owners make the exact same mistake.
And it’s costing them time, money, and real growth.
And something else.. which I’ll touch on over the next few days..
Every business owner carries a weight. Some wear it like a badge of honor, convinced it’s just part of the grind. Others don’t even realize it’s holding them back. But there comes a moment when you have to ask—am I actually moving forward, or just pushing the same rock uphill over and over again?
I met someone recently trapped in this cycle. His story might sound familiar.
Most business owners focus on growth, but very few think about this one thing—until it’s too late.
And to it bluntly: This one thing is 100% guaranteed that it will happen to you. The only question is how and on whose terms.
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